Tuesday, 25 January 2022

NEED FOR A REORIENTATION TOWARDS HAPPINESS

 




Introduction

In our day today life it is quite easy to get confused between the terms pleasure and   happiness as they both feel very similar. Although they feel similar, there are a good amount of differences between pleasure and happiness. Let us put in this simple way - If people sit down to a delicious meal at their favourite restaurant, are they feeling happiness or pleasure?  What if you unwrap a gift during the holidays and find it’s exactly what you wanted?  Pleasure or happiness?  Before getting confused further let us try to distinguish between happiness and pleasure.

 

  • Is happiness important? (Yes)
  • Is happiness a universal human feeling? (Yes)
  • Do other animals experience happiness? (Yes)
  • Is there a scientific basis for happiness? (Yes)

If you substitute the word “pleasure” for “happiness” above, the same answers apply. Now we must ask:

  • Are happiness and pleasure the same thing? (No)
  • Do people sometimes equate pleasure with happiness? (Yes)
  • Is there scientific evidence that differentiates the two? (Yes)

Feeling of Pleasure

The very nature of human beings is to seek pleasure which makes one happy and that can give enjoyment. Pleasure is an emotional state, in which you feel good and enjoy what you are doing.  In most cases pleasure (hedonic happiness) is a feeling of enjoyment due to external stimuli. For instance

 

·         We experience a sensation of pleasure when we eat a delicious slice of cake.

·         We get pleasure when we listen to pleasant music.

·         We experience pleasure when we do something we love doing.

·         We also derive pleasure from reading a book and from daydreaming.

·         We get pleasure from the smell and taste of good food, from a pleasant breeze on a warm day, or from the sight of a beautiful person.

 

Pleasure is most often associated with doing what feels good, self-care, fulfilling desires, experiencing enjoyment, and feeling a sense of satisfaction. The pleasure is mainly experienced by the body through the five senses organs- eyes, ears, nose, tongue, skin. Pleasure has to do with the positive experiences of our senses, and with good things happening. This is because our body is enjoying the positive experience through the senses.  However, the pleasure we experience is momentary and is always dependent on external factors. Pleasurable experiences can give us momentary feelings of happiness that does not last long because it is dependent upon external events and experiences.  As soon as the experience ends or else the external factor is removed, you move back to the original state. To keep on having the pleasurable experiences external stimuli-- more food, more drugs or alcohol, more money, more sex, more things –have to be provided continuously. As a result, many people become addicted to these external experiences, needing more and more to feel a short-lived feeling of happiness.

 Feeling of Happiness

True happiness (Eudemonia) on the other hand is a state of inner peace and inner calmness which is characterized by feelings of joy, satisfaction, contentment, and fulfilment. It is a state of emotion derived from seeking meaning, virtue and purpose in life. True happiness comes from within. Happiness might be triggered by events or external factors, but it does not depend on them. It is a sensation of inner calmness and satisfaction. So it is not a reaction to external stimuli. Happiness has many different definitions. However, it is often described as involving positive emotions and life satisfaction. In this context happiness is considered as a state of subjective wellbeing and contentment where one experience balance of emotions and life satisfaction. 

Though perceptions of happiness may be different from one person to the next, there are some key signs considered when measuring and assessing happiness.

Some key signs of happiness include:

  • Feeling like you are living the life you wanted
  • Feeling that the conditions of your life are good
  • Feeing that you have accomplished (or will accomplish) what you want in life
  • Feeling satisfied with your life
  • Feeling positive more than negative

Happiness is not a state of constant excitement. Instead happiness is an overall sense of experiencing more positive emotions than negative ones. Even though they are in the state of happiness they still feel the whole range of emotions like anger, frustration, boredom, loneliness and even sadness from time to time.  Even when they are faced with discomfort , they experience an underlying sense of optimism that the things will get better which may help them to deal with what is happening.

The Science behind Happiness & Pleasure: 

The science behind happiness and pleasure, sourced in the fields of neuroscience, medicine, and psychology. It draws heavily on research summarized in the book The Hacking of the American Mind, by Dr. Robert Lustig (2017).Studies in the fields of neuroscience, medicine, and psychology have revealed that pleasure is produced when the neurotransmitter, dopamine is released in the brain.  On the other hand Happiness is produced when the neurotransmitter, serotonin is released in the brain.

Dopamine is the “feel good” neurotransmitter a motivating hormone that is responsible for feelings of pleasure, desire, and motivation to learn new things. That is why people continue to chase it.  This is also why, in psychology, it is called the “reward pathway” in the brain.  For instance, when you have sex, eat your favourite food, gamble, use any sort of drug, open up a gift, or even gossip, dopamine is released in your brain and pleasure is produced.  Since the experience feels good, you go after them again…and again…and again.  It gets to a point that the thought or anticipation of the experience can release dopamine.  However, once the experience ends, so does the feeling of pleasure, only leaving you wanting more.  Pleasure is short lived.  It doesn’t last long and can ultimately be unhealthy if it leads to addictive behaviours.

Serotonin is an important neurotransmitter which helps regulate mood and social behaviour, appetite and digestion, along with sleep and memory. When people feel happiness, they are at an even keel for an extended period of time.  Their mood is level and they are feeling good about their life.  You may feel happy with life at home, at work, or where you are in life.  For example, if you are sitting around a table full of family and friends during the holidays, you may pause, reflect, and experience happiness since you are surrounded by people you love.  This feeling will most likely last through dinner and for the remainder of the night.

Both serotonin and dopamine travel between neurons, but they have very different effects on those neurons. Serotonin inhibits neurons essentially slowing them down and producing a feeling of contentment or happiness. In contrast, dopamine excites neurons and in response those neurons stop making themselves so readily available and over time it becomes harder to get the feel good hit you’re after. What’s more, dopamine down regulates serotonin, so by chasing pleasure from those hits of dopamine you could be undermining your ability to feel contented happiness.

The feeling of pleasure is short lived whereas the feeling of happiness is long lived. When pleasure is associated with physical sensations, happiness is associated with inner peace, mental and emotional calmness. Though pleasure is associated with taking, happiness is associated with giving. Creativity and innovation are a result of sharing this happiness. Nature of pleasure in most cases is self-centred whereas the nature of happiness is altruistic. In this context we have to reorient ourselves to make a march from pleasure seeking to happiness seeking which is a state of inner peace and inner calmness.  

 

Key differences between these two states of being- Pleasure/ Happiness  

  • Pleasure is short-lived; happiness is long-lived.
  • Pleasure is visceral; happiness is ethereal.
  • Happiness is internal pleasure is external

·         Pleasure often has to do with physical sensations, happiness is more an inner sensation that is associated with inner peace and mental and emotional calmness.

  • Pleasure is taking; happiness is giving.
  • Pleasure can be achieved with substances; happiness cannot be achieved with substances.
  • Removal of external factors does not make an individual unhappy as it is more of a state of mind. Removal of external factors directly affects pleasure.
  • Pleasure is experienced alone (oneself); happiness is experienced in social groups.
  • The extremes of pleasure all lead to addiction, whether they be substances or behaviours. Yet there’s no such thing as being addicted to too much happiness.
  • Finally and most importantly, pleasure is tied to dopamine (the pleasure biochemical/neurotransmitter), and happiness is tied to serotonin (the happiness biochemical/neurotransmitter).

 

Types of Happiness

 Types of happiness people may experience vary from relatively brief feeling of joy to a state of optimism- a positive outlook or a state of contentment - which involves a sense of satisfaction.

     ü  Joy: A often relatively brief feeling that is felt in the present moment

ü  Excitement: A happy feeling that involves looking forward to something with positive anticipation

ü  Gratitude: A positive emotion that involves being thankful and appreciative

ü  Pride: A feeling of satisfaction in something that you have accomplished

ü  Optimism: This is a way of looking at life with a positive, upbeat outlook

ü  Contentment: This type of happiness involves a sense of satisfaction

 

 

Impact of Happiness

Happiness has been shown to predict positive outcomes in many different areas of life.

  • Positive emotions increase satisfaction with life.
  • Happiness helps people build stronger coping skills and emotional resources.
  • Positive emotions are linked to better health and longevity.
  • Positive feelings increase resilience. Resilience helps people better manage stress and bounce back better when faced with setbacks. For example, one study found that happier people tend to have lower levels of the stress hormone cortisol and that these benefits tend to persist over time.
  • People who report having a positive state of well-being are more likely to engage in healthy behaviours such as eating fruits and vegetables and engaging in regular physical exercise.
  • Being happy may make help you get sick less often. Happier mental states are linked to increased immunity.
References

https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-happiness-4869755#
https://blog.deliveringhappiness.com/the-difference-between-happiness-vs.-pleasure-and-why-it-matters-at-work#:
https://www.bethantaylorswaine.com/blog/happiness-vs-pleasure


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